Would most women leave a guy for this reason?

I'm curious as to whether or not most women would break up with and/or leave a guy who refused to sleep with them. I am one of those odd-ball guys who had a physically abusive father, was moved on three different occasions, and didn't get to be a traditional aged college student and be exposed to the opposite sex like alot of men are. Instead, I had to join the sausage fest that is the USMC. There are no single women in the Marine towns of eastern Carolina and the women surrounding the bases tend to dislike Marines because some of them actually do act like idiots, start fights, cause trouble, etc. Anyways, I have often pondered what would happen to me if I ever were to meet someone and the subject of sex were to come up. I would be too embarrased to have to confess to a woman that I am 31, never had a serious g/f, never done the deed, blah, blah, blah. The reason for that is because women have an expectation and a requirement that guys my age should have been around the block a few times so to speak. So, would you women reading this leave a guy who didn't want to sleep with you? I honestly feel that it would be too painful to reveal this secret of mine to a woman because she would, in all likelihood, laugh at me and make fun of me even though my life circumstances were NO fault of my own and were in fact due to my father's MISTAKES and downright f**kups. I have made peace with the fact that there is a very good chance that I will die without ever meeting anyone or ever knowing what its like for someone to truly love me and I am ok with that. However, at my age, do you women think that I should still consider possibly making myself vulnerable and putting myself out there despite what I have just revealed here? By the way, I have tried online dating since getting out of the military, but the city of roughly half a million people that I live in is extremely ciquish and the women will NOT date a guy unless he is a native of the state that I live in. In closing, I would recommend against anyone moving to the rocky mountain states unless you were born and raised here.